I have a very big problem in my marriage and I don't know what to do. My husband and I disagree on a fundamental level about how to raise our son. When my husband gets too stern with him, I get upset. I try to not say anything but once I feel he has crossed the line so to speak, I find myself intervening and we fight. I am in my own personal therapy for depression/anxiety and I just cannot handle it. I feel like I'm being triggered. My T said I needed to decide whether I want to leave my husband or stay and work on it. He strongly suggested marital therapy 2 months ago but I was too afraid. I want to go now because I feel like I'm making progress in therapy and when these fights happen I fall backwards. Does marriage counseling work?