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Sometimes this transference stuff doesn't make sense to me. You guys have wonderufl Ts that make you feel valued and cared for. Why is it transference when you care for a T? and friendshp when it's not a T. Why can't you just like someone. But if it isn't always transference, what kind of system sets up a connection between two people that is designed to stop once you really understand and accept that you are loveable and worthy and a sign of health is to walk away from it. It's really hard.
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