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Old Feb 17, 2007, 02:59 AM
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Well, it seems I have TWO problems
I agree with most of it. I'd say it's pretty accurate.

<h3>Your Existing Situation</h3><ul>Orderly, methodical, and self-contained. Needs the respect, recognition, and understanding of those close to her.[/list]<h3>Your Stress Sources</h3><ul>Feels that life has far more to offer and that there are still important things to be achieved--that life must be experienced to the fullest. As a result, she pursues her objectives with a fierce intensity that will not let go of things. Becomes deeply involved and runs the risk of being unable to view things with sufficient objectivity, or calmly enough; is therefore in danger of becoming agitated and of exhausting her nervous energy. Cannot leave things alone and feels she can only be at peace when she has finally reached her goal.[/list]<h3>Your Restrained Characteristics</h3><ul>Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense, leaving her rather isolated in her attachments.

Insists that her hopes and ideas are realistic, but need reassurance and encouragement. Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense.</p>

Feels trapped in a distressing or uncomfortable situation and seeking some way of gaining relief. Able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity providing no turmoil or emotional agitation is involved.</p>[/list]<h3>Your Desired Objective</h3><ul>Defiantly opposes any sort of restriction or opposition. Sticks obstinately to her own point of view in the belief that this proves her independence and self-determination.[/list]<h3>Your Actual Problem</h3><ul>The fear that she might be prevented from achieving the things she wants drives her to the exploitation of all types of experience, so that she may categorically deny that any of them has any value. This destructive denigration becomes her method of concealing hopelessness and a profound sense of futility.[/list]<h3>Your Actual Problem #2</h3><ul>Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, emptiness, and an unadmitted self-contempt. Her refusal to admit this leads to her adopting a headstrong and defiant attitude.[/list]