i agree the thought of getting caught in a rerun is quite scary, here and irl, it so easy to be overlooked,
you can tell your self it doesnt matter but sometimes it does, i have a fear of no choice this was big in my childhood the adults all thought they knew what was best for us as children,
i have tried not to make the same mistakes with my own children :
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