I was talking about rape that happened when I was 6 years old....I never told anyone before and I was shaking like crazy.

My T´s first words: " Did it hurt?"

Seriously? Why would she even ask that? Isn´t that so obvious?

I realized how upset I was about this question later.... I also had my worst panic attack ever until the next day and she did not warn me it could happen or tell me how to cope better or what to do. I felt so lost and alone.

another T:
told me my potential children might carry burden too big...after seeing me for a short time and not knowing me enough. It really hurt because I am really trying to do everything I can to be a good mum one day.