This reminds me of my session last week with my t. Something about - now i remember, it was a weird story, but it was about, why was it so important for me to be sure my interpretation of events was correct. Without checking them out, without asking the other person. Its dangerous to ask the other person - you might get hurt. Thats what youre saying now - if you hadnt mentioned it, it would have been okay? But it would have been imaginary. A fool's paradise, as they say.