Thread: Dating phobia?
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Old Jan 19, 2014, 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Milana View Post
I'm 34 female, I'm new here (Excuse me for my English as it is not my first language.)

Lately I feel like I'm becoming bitter and bitter when it comes to dating men. I think I have dated enough men yet not being successful to find the one so far. I usually go out on dates once in a month or less, but in the last a few times (with different people each time), I didn't even feel like telling them what I do for living. I have my full time job at a major company in the city and there's nothing to hide about it really. Also when a guy asked me which area I lived, I felt extremely uncomfortable telling him. He only asked like the name of my town....With this guy, there was a chance he may know someone I used to date about year ago and we ended up so badly, so I thought it had to do with the episode.

But I noticed I was doing about the same with someone online in a different country. I think something isn't right with me. Basically, I do not feel comfortable sharing my personal information with the men I date. On the other hand, I'm okay with telling people about my opinions and personalities and stuff. If someone asks me for my opinion on politics, philosophy, books, I have no problem conveying my thoughts. And it has started just recently. Does this mean I should take a break?
Hey Milana, Sorry to hear! It sounds to me like a little anxiety and distrust is all! Best of luck!!