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Originally Posted by ilikedesifem
Your T is an arse, and doesn't get the wider world.
We live in a sexualised culture. So talking about sex a lot is the norm for both genders, not just men. Provided that a desire for sex does not override your other activities, then fine, be sexual.
As for age, well I'd imagine most younger people view porn a lot, or make sexual jokes. Whilst Ts may disapprove because being "mentally normal" is about some conservative norm (lol..)
I don't mean to hijack your thread OP, but then I have had similar issues with therapists before so I can relate. It seems they hate modern norms, and I don't see why doing as the many do is a "pathology".
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Actually no she isn't. She is very sex positive, certainly not at all conservative, and really supports people talking about sex.
The problem isn't that I'm a woman who makes sex jokes and watches porn. The problem is that I think about sex all the time, sexualize basically everything, and run away from anything that could be remotely sexual all at the same time. Talking about sex all the time and then never pursuing a sexual relationship at any level. Masturbating and then hating my body not because I think masturbation is wrong or I have any moral issues with it, but for some other reason entirely that at the time she didn't know was caused by sexual abuse. Not taking care of myself physically because if something isn't sexual, it doesn't really seem to have a purpose to me. Being unable to touch anyone besides my T because I see all touch as sexual and it makes me scared/upset. Being super easily aroused and not wanting to be. There is more to this than me just being a woman who masturbates occasionally.