Kristal is my sister and I avoid Chris. When she said that she wants to crash her car and she wishes she was never born, yes, I'm going to check up on her frequently. I said stuff because he came stomping up the stairs screaming at me. That was the 1st time I talked about his past to him. I used the skill DEAR MAN and that is suppose to help the situation, but sometimes it doesn't work and that is when I need to come up with other ways. I was at fault too for screaming that stuff. Things got out of hand. Fortunately, I'm moving