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Old Jan 19, 2014, 10:08 PM
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Originally Posted by shamon86 View Post
Honestly, I could become active and loose 20 lbs. and try to make myself look pretty and sign up for every dating site and hope that maybe someone finds me the slightest bit attractive but that doesn't mean that my life is going to get better.
This is spot on!! You're are correct, right there! You could lose the weight, have an ideal on-line profile, and still...those sites, aren't everything that it would seem that they would be.

And, even in real life, doesn't mean that they come flocking out of the woodwork, just because you find acceptance of your physical self.

Fate/Destiny, now there's something to look at. So, um, while you are waiting around, to see what fate has in store for you, how else, can you adjust your life, to find peace and contentment in it, while you ride out this thing we call life?