I will have to say, YOU must think of yourself first, I know cause I have been putting loved ones before myself and now I am suffering with burnout and my deep depression has returned, amazing how our hearts can "betray" us sometimes, but we must work hard, consider ourselves, our well being before we allow our hearts to consume us.
Best of luck my dear friend. ((((((((((smootches )))))))))
So damn saying "no" isn't it ?

Take care and always feel free to PM me.


DE

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON