But the T relationship can fail, even if it has been a long and fruitful one and both parties are doing their best. And it really might not be anyone's fault. The patient is who he is. The therapist is who she is. Some things can't be changed.

(I'm writing this from a mature and rational part of my brain. I'm not sure I believe it in my heart.)

Going to a new T may be the only way forward,