One can lead a horse to water . . . perhaps in time one will be 'thirsty' enough to partake of pertinent information as to why one struggles the way they do. I understand the frustration in this for you. Try not to be regretful of sharing your diagnosis as it is a part of you/your world. Move on from it, continue learning and helping yourself in the various ways you can. It sucks and I'm sorry that we cannot, at times, depend on others the way we feel we need to.