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Old Jan 20, 2014, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted by WikidPissah View Post
babbling now....just babbling...because I am missing XT...

On more than one occasion he told me "sometimes I am really intimidated by your intelligence." Arg. That made me feel like s h i t. I don't want to intimidate anyone...I am a softy, honest. It was so dang frustrating! Grrrr. T's usually treat me like an idiot because of my stutter. They spell things out for me and patronize me. This one T that I really liked and felt close to was intimidated by me. AHHHHHHHHHH!!!

F R U S T R A T E D!!!!!
Perhaps he did not mean it in the negative way you took it. He could have been trying to convey a compliment. I would not take it as a negative, for example, if someone said it to me. With some people, I would take it as a given. With others I would take it as an acknowledgement of different strengths.
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Thanks for this!
WikidPissah