First of all, I'm pretty involved in a community group, I've been to meet ups, and I play in two community bands. So, I have plenty of involvement with real life people and when I go back to college, I'll be around tons of people day in and day out.

I think my main problem is that I'm more interested in guys than girls at the moment and I can find girls who like me, just no guys. Apparently, it freaks guys out in real life that I would like them…keep in mind that I may be more masculine and don't identify as straight up "female", but I have female equipment as it were. And I clearly look female at the moment. I may not after I'm physically able to do weight training (I'm working through a messed up back and all that), but if nothing else, I have long hair and an effeminate face. So, I honestly don't understand the apparent confusion of guys.

And I'm limited to what sites I can join. I don't do paid sites and I have to have a site where I don't have to choose whether I'm straight or gay because I'm neither.

A lot of the animosity towards me seemed to come from the fact that I'm better educated than most on that site (probably most in general).

healingme4me-I'm sorry the site tried to match you with your ex. That's terrible. Fortunately(?), I don't have any exes that this moment and I was matched with this dude that I already liked and went on a date with. But based on his profile, I don't think I'd be enough of a good girl for him. You know, not "Christian" enough.