My wife and I met after my messy divorce. My son and daughter always hated my wife and her three children for every reason imaginable and suffered the most severe psychological warfare in my ex-wife's efforts to ruin the relationship between my children and my wife and me. They were 10 and 13 at the time and this continued for years through recordings, text messages and other means. My daughter has moved out and in with my ex-wife and my son, now 16, is split between us on visitation. My ex had just started another huge push to get my son full time. Every time he complains to her about me she asks him to change custody. He's blowing up our home and says he wants to move in with his mother full time. He hates my wife but is cordial with her. He is extremely hateful towards me. I don't know what to do. My wife does everything for him. Sometimes I think the best thing to do is just not react to his attitude.
I need some suggestions.