i must agree with you, Resa~! the trouble with questionairres that attempt to measure anything, is they try to squeeze all the answers into preformed replies.
so that a test for "mental illness" (which is what this really is) will evaluate all answers as they apply to illness. personally, i prefer to speak in terms of brain chemistry disorders, learned behavioral patterns, and under-developed personal resources. now THAT would be a test i would like to take~!
hang in there, your self esteem is obviously VERY GOOD~!