Hope you dont mind but i told my t about this. That it describes how i felt about getting a card in the mail from my mother over the weekend. Its pretty excellent.

I used the word "foppish" today in session to describe a young female character in a Louisa May Alcott novel - Eight Cousins - its not very well known - and t stopped me! I said, okay, the word is usually used to describe a male. Now i have to look it up. Anyway, after the girl started eating oatmeal for breakfast, and by the end of the book, she no longer wore velvet and was no longer foppish we were discussing my long term constipation issues!