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Old Jan 20, 2014, 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted by blur View Post
i think the negative transference with T will be resolved when you focus on the person who is really the issue--i.e. your mom. once you grieve your losses in your relationship with your mom, take responsibility for your part (if you have a part to own in it), and start to move on then i'd think the transference with madame T would resolve. this isn't really about madame T but your mom. she probably needs to be more of the focus.
I focussed on my mum for at least ten years.

The Classical Model says I can resolve with mum by resolving with Madame T. That is the Fundamental Theorem of Psychotherapy. If I can't resolve with Madame T, who is in the room and trying to help me, how can I resolve with my dead mother?

What I mean is, I think I disagree.
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