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Originally Posted by CantExplain
I focussed on my mum for at least ten years.
The Classical Model says I can resolve with mum by resolving with Madame T. That is the Fundamental Theorem of Psychotherapy. If I can't resolve with Madame T, who is in the room and trying to help me, how can I resolve with my dead mother?
What I mean is, I think I disagree.
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CE, i'm not sure if i'm misunderstanding how transference resolves or possibly that you are or if there are different ways to do it. regardless, i think the way to resolve anger and blame with someone is to forgive them. give up your anger and accept that you were hurt or didn't get what you wanted. we have to give ourselves the space to grieve our losses and then move on and live again or they will just consume us.
