I don't have any solutions. I just want to let you know I am the same way. I get so angry I truly believe I hate my husband. I have said/done some terrible things. I feel like he is not doing everything he can to support me though. He's a good guy, with some demons of his own. He is selfish. I am selfish. Right now I need him to be strong because I am so up and down, back and forth...I can't stand myself.