Its not silly, that psyc was silly <_< perhaps find someone to asses you and tell them about your concerns? As for medicating BPD it IS tricky because so littler is still known about it. And there are many types of BPD from what I've read. I mean mood stabalizers COULD help? (dunno not a clinician) I guess this because of our fluctuating moods. Other then that if you have BPD the most effective treatment I keep hearing about is DBT. And reading about it can help (provided you pick the right book, "Stop walking on eggshells" pissed me off from the first paragraph *rolls eyes* but thats for you to decide). Also please remember having a solid diagnosis for your disorder doesn't make you, its just a part of yourself you need to work on and with. I wish I could outline "how to know who you are" but............I don't know who I am really either lol.