So, please tell me what do you do when your mom is your biggest trigger and she is extremely present in my life. I mean very present. I'm an only child, but I am a 35 year old woman. Just got married in May and just got diagnosed in September. An extremely hostile boss triggered the PTSD and I'm deep in it now. Mom never abused me or anything, just made a lot of really bad choices, during my developmental years that stayed with me...lots of moves, marriages, boyfriends, other stuff. Anyway, I'm trying to set boundaries, but we are close and she calls all of the time and wants to see me. I never really leave the house, have isolated myself from my friends, and am always pissed off at my mother. She knows everything, but can't seem to process it and won't give me any space. I'm at a loss. I don't know what to do. I feel guilty too. Any advice?