Just a short note. Even in a monogamous relationship sex can be used in a self destructive nature. For instance sometimes I get triggered by...say...talking in a therapy session about being raped. Then I will go home and have unprotected sex with my husband. Afterwards I will be scared to death that I might be pregnant. I don't want anymore kids, I have contraception next to the bed, I have no reason to put myself into that tense situation but I do in a very predictable fashion. This doesn't have to do with promiscuity but rather the affects of sex that is done for the wrong reasons. I feel you can have multiple sex partners and be having sex in a healthy fashion but it can be not so healthy as well. Depends why and how you are doing it.
Carrie

<font color=blue>If you have two dollars, spend one on bread and the other on flowers. The bread will feed your body and the flowers will feed your soul."--Arabic Saying