If i ever have kids i know i'll be slightly over cautious with them but i hope i can help them see it is out of love and care for them and not to be mean. I win't force them to only eat healthy organic snacks as long as they eat their meals including veggies and don't ruin their appetite. If i have kids they will each have their own room, tailored to their own personality. I want to respect each ones identity and not compare them to each other. I expect them to do their best in school and will reward them accordingly. I hope to teach them to respect others through my own actions and i hope to never call them out of their name or disrespect them. I will dedicate one day a month for each child alone to spend w/ mommy and one day to spend with daddy and one to spend with both. I want them to know that i hear them and am willing to listen without judging them to whatever they wish to talk about. I want to show them that they are one of the most important things to me. If they make bad choices they will have to endure the consequences of those actions wether it be small such as no tv or large such as a teen pregnancy but i will be there for them every step of the way loving them unconditionally. I want them to experience the joy of imagination through tea parties, creating fairy houses and catching butterflies. I want them to experience all the fun that childhood has to offer. I want to teach them to be humble and appreciative never giving them too much but never making them feel they can't come and ask for something. I just want them to experience a joy that a childhood should bring and make those days the best memories of their lives.