this is really weird and odd to be involved in.

my friend whom I was very intimate with at one point ...and we both showed interest in dating each other but it just never went anywhere.

Well I ended up falling for him...and feeling really poorly about it. I mean its quite clear for a while that he just did not end up feeling the same...way and I still to this day even with a boyfriend that I am commited too.....still have love for this person.

well, I am being asked politely to help with possible matching him up with someone.

I want him happy for course, but I think my major fear from all this comes from my abandonment issues. I am afraid we are not going to be as close to each other as we are now. If he gets a GF or that the lil iside jokes we make some other girl is not gonna understand.

or that I am just gonna frankly lose a frend......I know this ties fully into BPD but I don't know what do for it all.