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Originally Posted by probs
~ curfew (Friday 10pm /Saturday 12am/Sunday before dark)
~ every time we leave her zip code we have to let her parents know
~ they check in on us every hour or so with a phone call
~ cant sleep under the same roof (had to sleep in cars plenty of times)
~ we are allowed one big event a month (by big event I mean the club)
~ we cant travel together
~ the list keeps going and it just gets worse!
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- Their house, their rules. I wouldn't care if it was my grandparents, but I wouldn't want them coming and going at all hours of the night waking me up.
- You must live in a small town. There are quite a few zip codes just in our city. But I can understand them wanting to know where you guys will be since you're coming back to their house. That way they have an idea of when to expect you. Although zip codes is weird. How about just telling them where you'll be?
- Okay, that's just some clingy garbage there. That's like abusive boyfriend stalker stuff.
- While not sleeping under the same roof is a bit much to me, I can see some people not being comfortable with an unmarried couple bumping uglies in their house. "Hey Chuck! Guess what I did to your daughter last night!"
- You guys are 22, they need to respect that you can go to the Comedy Club without an adult. Next it will be "No R-rated movies".
- Huh? Probably falls under the "Hey Chuck!" thing again in their minds.
Overall, has she considered moving out? If you both had your own places, then it's your rules on what you both do. I think that would be the best thing myself.
Oh, and as far as this goes:
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... termination from the family and an *** whopping.
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If someone really threatened you like that remind them that if they even consider laying their hands on you there will be consequences. (Police, an ***whooping in return, whatever works for you.) Don't put up with bullying like that.