you know i didn't even expect to meet me ware i was emotionally .i could understand if she did that i might not grow but it would have been nice if she met me in the middle .i kept on trying to believe that at some point she would but that was completely destroyed when she said last session if i wanted to talk about something i would need to bring it up.i just cant do that easily .it took me 4 years to say what little i said