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Originally Posted by CantExplain
 ((Granite))((Chopin))
Sorry, but I don't agree. When Granite started, she couldn't even say hello. Four years from there to Granite being brave enough to leave is probably about right.
I have to say, though, that getting Granite to talk and listening to her are two very different things. |
Yeah. It just seems like some of the t's rules against emails etc are hindering rather than helping, and they seem arbitrary and inflexible. And arbitrary and inflexible is itself re-traumatizing since it repeats the original trauma. Thats the kind of thing my t keeps "accusing" me, of accusing him of doing, when in fact he's not. I mean, i yelled at him for wishing me happy new year - that was pretty clear cut proof to me that i was seeing him thru mother-colored glasses. But it took a looooooong time to untangle these feelings.