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Originally Posted by Citrine
I am sick of this. I do not dress to attract attention in any way. There I am walking along and my parker blows open and its a bit windy and yes theyve reacted. SO WHAT. Some slimy older man with too many children in his car and a miserable looking wife is turning his head eyes locked on my chest. Im not a whole person, Im a set of nipples. SURELY he has seen enough of them in his years. Is he sick of the fake tits in the porn he secretly watches as wifey is peeling the potatoes? Why do I sound so scathing? because its pathetic and creepy. Im in jeans, tshirt and chunky boots and a coat.Must I wear multiple layers all the time. GROW UP men. They are just breasts. Were not into you, were not reacting to you. Go get hypnotism or castrated coz I feel sick with your dirty greedy looks. Its a peeve of mine. It totally puts me off men as it shows some kind of immaturity or lack of control. Ladies... your thoughts?
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Citrine,
I am sorry to say but the guy did not look at your face because your facial expression was unpleasant. Your stereotyping, your being judgmental, an ageist, etc. - they all must have been surely written all across your face, making your nipples your best asset which drew the guy in. I mean - why would he look at the face of a person who counts his children and decides that he has too many?
So you need to project a nicer self via your facial expressions and people, men and sometimes women, will want to look at your face. As long as you feel a sense of entitlement (you feel that the guys Must view you as a whe person even if you decide for them how many children they should have) rather than a sense of appreciation (in the scenario you described, I would have given everyone - the guy, the woman, the kiddos a bright, open, appreciative smile), people would not be draen to your face, but the power to change it lies within you.
I am a rather plump woman now and after three children whom I nursed for a very long time, my size is 36DDD, which means that my bust does not stand out much, but ay your age, pre-children and very skinny, I wore something like 32DDDD, which was quite visible (without being "off the charts"). But unless I was braless, on a couple of occasions, men would still look at my face. Literally, outside of those couple of occasions of gping nraless which did result in that hypnotized look, everyone did want to see my face.
So you wanted to know "ladies' thoughts" and you have gotten my input informed by years of experience - unless your cup size is completely off the charts, this kind of a situation is a feedback to you from the outside world, which says that your facial expression is not pleasant enough. This would have very little to do with the attractiveness of your features per se and very much to do with the thoughts you were thinking, because, unless ypu went to a school that trains spies, your thoughts are quite visible to people who are passing by, and the expression of disgust would be especially apparent.