I agree with not choosing you are attracted too but it seems that any single women my age drink like fish. I dont like bars, dont care to socialize, yet the borderline and fill on alcoholics seem to find me. That being said i have no problems at all with someone who may drink socially etc etc but every night of the week or every weekend...i think thats too much ...I might try and find that book..might be inspiration to pack and charge my kindle. Sometimes i wish i wasnt so socially awkward and then other times i really dont care because i dont like to be social.