I would think that continuing to sleep with you was just a selfish act not an act of encouragement. Seems more like she was getting something she wasn't willing to give up until the time was right for her. People who just want the benefits without the responsibility of a relationship are just like that.

If you seriously want to have a relationship with a person then sex has to come after not before & that means being insightful & recognizing those who are just leading you on.

I believe in NO sex until after marriage. Doesn't guarantee a perfect relationship but at least the initial commitment is intended at that time as usually no one is usually willing to go as far as marriage just for sex...weeds out those only interested in sex & focuses on the ability to have a REAL relationship with someone who does care

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