nix the lifts. (& correct your ht. on the site, nothing wrong with a short man, but, as a woman, I can say we become uncomfortable with lies...and sometimes begin to extrapolate about what else might not be true...) be you. I would suggest you meet, see how it goes...maybe you will end up spending the whole day, maybe not---and do get her input, be interested in getting to know her...take your time (down fido!)...it sounds really nice enjoy and let us know how it goes.