Thanks ladies. It's just that the first impression lasts and 5'4 looks better than 5'1" but yeah i guess lying ( even if it's a white lie) isn't a good idea. It's just that getting ladies to respond on dating sites is so hard that a few tweaks seem to be neccesary. We've seen each others pictures and assuming they are all kosher ( oy oy oy)- i'm not jewish tho, then all should be well. I think she's lovely and if she can cope with my ugly mug then all's good,. Oh and i go to London anyway so would go on to do other stuff anyway and want to go to the comedy club anyway ( that's also free). Oh dear she'll think i'm a real skinflint). Do you say that in the US?. I'll say i'll pay for a coffee but any extras she pays for herself. Haha. How would that go down.? Haha. I'm kidding of course.