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No problem (for me) about the rant. Seems like PC is a good place to let the tornado out straight from your head. If/when it gets less intense and you feel more like connecting some with people and not just being heard, then you can write another way if you feel like it. In the meantime, we don’t have to “listen”, that is read, if we don’t want to.
So sorry about your mom. The dynamics there – yeah, I understand from my own family of origin and may (probably) have been like that myself, despite therapy, despite my best efforts. The dynamics are full of c….p definitely. Maybe your mom’s OK sometimes? But. . . how to relate to her without the risk of. . ??? Don’t know what to call it exactly.
Do you talk with your T about this at all? Seems to me like it’s probably pretty important due to what people have found out lately about “attachment”, etc.
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