I just got out of a situation with someone who drank too much...she would drink everynight and then decided to do a new year new me thing and now only drinks on the weekends but the way I see it alcoholism is alcoholism,,,left untreated it can only get worse and sometimes people that are alcoholics cant help themselves..and in my case im lucky she dumped me because I was going in the same direction right along with her...Do you think your husband would get physical if you talked to him and asked him to seek help? I will say that my ex would blow it off and not want to talk about it...