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__zh said:
sounds like you were instrumental in teaching valuable lessons to your daughter. it can't be easy to "turn your back" as you said but it really isn't turning your back but instead showing your strength in maintaining your boundary.

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Thank you __zh for that clarification...you are so right, I'm NOT turning my back, I'm setting and keeping boundaries. There is a complete difference there and I need to remember that!

Thanks for your support....they mean a lot!