ok, but see?
The best way to ensure that ALL feel safe from "reading things into posts" is to be very mindful of our OWN posts.... and vow *never* to post something that is a subtle dig at another, and ask yourself with each post if it could easily be construed as one.
We cannot control what others do, but we can control our own behavior! And at the end of the day, isn't the most important thing to be able to sleep well knowing that you always took the higher road?