The only one who can say NO is you!!!!.....you are the one that has to be in control of your life & what you really want....if they are pushing for that then they aren't the kind of person you want in the first place......your past may tell you different or you may need caring that you never got growing up that this is filling the need to make you feel like you are wanted....but trust me...the only thing those kind of guys want to fulfill is their OWN LUST...& they really don't care about you.