I like to think I'm a good mom. All the doctors think so. I dealt my son a ****** hand. Pdd , mood disorder and ADHD. I doubt he'll ever be functional enough to hold a full time job but that doesn't mean he can't have a happy, healthy life. I wasn't DX as bipolar when I decided to have a child but I knew I most likely had bipolar or at least I was mentally ****ed as well as my husband. We had decided we'd just be proactive. My sons pdoc said if everyone was scared of their genes then there would be no children. We had two options not have a child or get them help when needed. She feels we picked the best options.

I don't know if you work but if it was me I would spend my whole pregnancy unmedicated in partial hospitalization.