i think that what you mean is that you DON`T want people to give you tips for "a way out" becasue it feels judgmental and as if they are impatient?

at least the way they are saing it!
they may have a good meaning..... but i understand more or less..maybe there are not "tips" but really expression of impatioence and such..

nd being a student sucks sometimes !!! i know!!!!