You're not a naturally aggressive guy are you Illegal Toilet? You're a nice guy that is more concerned with the emotional side of things as opposed to ... shall I say "tappin' dat"?

I'm seeing this more and more where one partner will want the other to do something that is out of their character. Such as spankings or being rough and aggressive or hair-pulling or whatnot. I'm not sure what the solution is, but I find it ... curious ... that someone would ask a loved one to act out of character. Especially when it's being aggressive when that person is clearly not.