ah i see.
the intention of this thread was for us all to support rhapsody in her unstated belief that this was a cult.
and when she said 'you decide'
what she really meant to say was...

sheesh people.

and IMHO not terribly sympathetic to those of other faiths.

(but thats okay - all you have to do is label it a cult)

wisest is he who knows he does not know

etc etc