hey. i think i typically do feel embarrassed and weak when i'm sharing stuff that is for me.

if i waited for those feelings to go away i probably would never ever get to talk about my feelings and stuff.

i think it is one of those 'feel the feelings and do it anyway' kinds of things.

but that being said starting small can help. because as others have said, it takes time and little tiny self-disclosures in order to assess whether your t will receive it well.