I just took a shower and got calmer. I think I have made my decision. I am just going to need time to get it all together. I am not going to be a victim. I just washed that mentality off of myself. My best revenge is to take care of myself, and get successful! I am starting a business but I held off due to fear. No more. I am going to get so successful that I don't need his money. ( but I will be willing to take what is legally mine, child support, etc.). I am going to call a lawyer and get a consultation.