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Originally Posted by ptangptang
I've met a lovely lady online and she thinks im nice, interesting and she wants to get to know me. YAY!!! ( i sound like s lovestruck teenager- i'm 57 haha). Ok first date tips please. We are both within easy reach of London ( 'bout half hour on the train) but from different directions.( i don't have a car). Do you think a whole day with someone on the first date is too much.? When i go to London i like to spend the day there cos there is so much to do I had in mind this... I know a great venue ( actually a church-tho i'm not religious) that does great free luchtime concerts about once a month), then maybe a museum or gallery or whatever she likes then a comedy club in the evening.
Also i told a couple of white lies. I'm about 5'1" but i put 5'4" on the profile just to stand a chance. She's 5' so not really a prob. Im thinking of wearing shoe lifts but taking them out halfway through the day and seein if she notices haha. And hopefully we could laugh about it. Or not hmm. Sometimes i'm just too silly for my own good. Ok First date tips please. Don't be shy.
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Hey ptang, that's awesome congrats! I'd treat her to brunch/lunch and then based on how it goes, just see if she still wants to do something else! I'd just have things planned to do, like you do and just play it by ear! I'd confess to her about your height before you meet her! When I was dating I found women liked me to dress sharp, to bring them flowers and hold their hand on the first date, and open the door, get their chair, etc., and pay for everything for them! Just try to be open, honest, upfront, humorous, confident and complimentary! Best of luck, don't worry, everyone gets cold feet on game day!