He has been answering ads on CraigsList and looking for sex dates. He even told someone that he has a flexible work schedule and could meet during the day. Incidentally, he has told me that he is so busy at work that he can't get away to meet me for coffee at lunch time.

So, I don't know if he has made any of these meetings happen, but the fact that he is soliciting and looking for local people has me worried that he will escalate and begin to actually meet these people. He even gave one his cell phone number.

I had decided I was going to stay with him because we have kids, but I don't know if I can handle this. I don't even know how to approach him about this. I emailed my therapist telling him about this and I have requested that he call me on my cell tomorrow.

. I am afraid I would end up homeless if we divorced, but I don't know if I can live with this.

I know it is probably an addiction, and that he probably needs my support but I don't know if I can handle supporting someone who basically ignores me sexually and wants to go out and have sex with others (not just regular sex, he wants kinky things according to the emails).

I just don't know what to do, what to think...I am shattered by this.