Hey, I like this post it is NOT CRAP and you have every right to your opinion. THANK YOU for posting it.

That said, I will give you mine. I've been around a while now, half a century. I am a woman, two marriages, worked in male dominated industries for some of it. Love outside work and inside work, the drudge stuff and the creative stuff.

My take on me is this. My dad was an emotional dud. Nothing from him, ever. So what did I do? Marry just the same type, screwed up, pathological, users. Just great. One was macho and this last one is a cry baby. I think men are a lot better kept at arms length and not a bit closer.

I have found they generally have a much, much higher opinion of themselves than of anyone else in the whole universe. Bad trait.

I have found that if they cannot use you for sex, or money, then they have no use for you. Bad trait.

I have found that they want you to do their share as well as your own. Bad trait.

I have found that they lie. Bad trait.

These things are what I've been up against in my lifetime of trying to find love and a satisfying relationship. I now have a kitten and a separate bedroom and am much happier than I have ever been.

I hope your own life and search goes much better. Please do take everyone on an individual basis but please don't be like me and trust people. I used to be a very naive woman, but men....

Thanks for the post!
HourHand