View Single Post
 
Old Jan 23, 2014, 08:30 PM
healingme4me's Avatar
healingme4me healingme4me is offline
Perpetually Pondering
Community Liaison
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: New England
Posts: 46,298
Quote:
Originally Posted by eskielover View Post
I NEVER have been made to feel that way as a woman.....I know it's out there but I have also seen the women who end up demeaned have walked into it without the training or maybe even the desire to be equal.
[B]I was an only child who grew up in a neighborhood of mostly guys.....so the kids I played with were mostly guys & to be quite honest[/B

I was always their equal if not better in school with grades....& we always seemed to compete on equal footing & I was always treated as one of the guys. The girls I found that weren't treated with respect were usually ones who they couldn't relate to or couldn't relate to them.

I was one of the only ones in my family to get a degree

I think we earn our place of respect vs our place of being demeaned.

Sadly, I think for a long time women were raised to believe that all they were good for was being a sexual partner for a man & created no other values in their lives....right there to me was a very demeaning role that I refused to ever get trapped into....but that's just theory on my part & probably has a lot of holes in it.
Ditto.

There's plenty of places in society, where women are not demeaned. In fact, there's plenty of examples, too many to even pinpoint just one nor to list, where women are held in high esteem and respect.

Eskie, raises a valid point.
Hugs from:
pamj533
Thanks for this!
eskielover, pamj533