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Originally Posted by bridgie
so my ex and i have remained friends i am still in love with him. he met a new woman who changed his mind about wanting to settle down where with me i was just for fun. well this relationship is long distance and that doesnt really matter cuz they can work but deep down i sooooo want them to fail and i feel so evil for feeling that way
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Well I don't think you are a bad person for that. I wanted a relationship to fail because I was interested in someone as well. This particular relationship did end up failing and instead of feeling good about it, I felt bad that the person was hurt so deeply from losing their mate. Then the person didn't even want me anyway in that way, but we remained friends. I also found someone else to share my life with and you can too. It took me a long time to find the person I'm with now, so it will require patience, but in the end, you will find they were worth waiting for. Just hold on as best as you can and nurture and support yourself as best as you can and try to find inner happiness, if you can.